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The Five Languages of Apology

Learning How To Say You're Sorry

 

The Five Languages of Apology
How to Experience Healing in ALL Your Relationships
Just as you have a distinct love language, you also hear and express the words and gestures of apology in a different language. This groundbreaking study of the way we apologize reveals that it's not a matter of will—it's a matter of how. By helping people identify the languages of apology, this book clears the way toward healing and sustaining vital relationships.

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  The Other Side of Love

Anger: Handling a Powerful Emotion in a Healthy Way
Anger is a universal human experience. For many of us, it is the single greatest challenge in every area of our lives. We’ve been taught that it's a sin and we've seen the damage it can do. So how can we bring this harmful emotion under control? Gary Chapman gives us the benefit of his extensive counseling experience to help us discover the origins of anger and show us how to positively process it to improve our personal relationships. He also discusses being on the receiving end and how to defuse an angry situation.

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Testimonials
“This book is better than 30 years of counseling and my tranquilizer prescription. At last, someone has explained exactly what I'm feeling—exactly what we're ALL feeling—and given us logical, step-by-step ways to overcome this tremendous burden of anger, aka frustration, disappointment, injustice, etc. I don't have to be upset all the time anymore! Freedom!”
--M. Chandler, Arizona

“I recommend this to everyone. It is a sad fact that a lot of us just didn't learn how to effectively deal with our anger growing up.”
--Y. Lawrence, Illinois

“If a person reads this book and can't relate the material to their own lives, they couldn't be human. Dr. Chapman once again has hit the nail on the head with this book. Practical insights and easy to understand stories help to make this book a clear winner.”
--J. Anthony, North Carolina

 

  Hope for the Separated

Hope for the Separated
A realistic, compassionate look at the pain of separation. It doesn't have to end this way. Even when love seems lost and hope is gone, God's Word still has the power to heal.

You may not really feel like reconciling. You may not wish for a reunion. But there is still hope. Hope for the Separated shows that by following the proven advice of God's Word, you can achieve reconciliation with your mate and restore your marriage. Dr. Chapman knows, however, that in some cases, separation is the most loving course of action. He addresses situations where couples cannot go forward together, and offers compassionate advice for those who experience the pain of divorce.

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“I have never seen any book so much on target! I hope every separated person reads it three or four times—and makes it their constant guide. It is so true and so scriptural, it is a beacon of light in our confused culture where marriage is so very hard. There should be very few marriages that would not be transformed by following the advice in this book.”
--Name withheld, Louisiana

“HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!! This book was so moving, insightful and eye-opening that I read it three times over the course of one weekend. Gary Chapman truly gives you hope when you feel there is none. Its message is that separation can lead to a restored, enriched, growing marriage and the book shows you how. The part that hit home the most with me was that you don't have to be a slave to your past behaviors, you CAN change.”
--B. Miles, Pennsylvania

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Loving Solutions
Winner of the Gold Medallion Book Award

Desperate Marriages
Moving Toward Hope and Healing in Your Relationship
Countless couples today face major marital struggles. Dr. Gary Chapman communicates genuine hope for every marriage–even for those with deeply rooted wounds. Chapman provides positive steps for dealing with spouses who are:

  • Workaholics
  • Controlling
  • Uncommunicative
  • Physically, verbally, or sexually abusive
  • Unfaithful
  • Alcoholic or drug-abusing
  • Depressed
  • Irresponsible
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